Is it my fault these things happened?

psh, this doesnt sound like squabling or anything,its like your family made you the enemy and then blamed you for being the enemy. you family sounds just like mine: manipulative, blame ping, self serving, misunderstanding, and narrowminded. like my current problem, i have adhd and its messing up my school life. i went and got tested for it and diagnosed with it and prescribed medicene. my parents basicly said that the doctors were wrong if they said i had adhd and they were right if they said i didnt. i havent exactly been kicked out of the house yet, but i know how you feel pretty much, youve done nothing wrong as far as i can see, and if i were you, i would just get an appartment and some friends who would bring me up instead of blaming me for everything. you sound like you need to get away from family influences. sorry your having to go through this though. as i said before, i have a very similar situation. hope things get better.